Nikah dalam Masjid, Hukumnya?

I came across this matter from this blog. Thank ya puan blogger! Since I am planning my marriage, so this really is useful.

My interpretation from the article is:

1) It is better if we could do it in the mosque as "masjid itu adalah tempat yang paling suci on earth, maka pernikahan yang merupakan suatu ibadah itu juga tidaklah salah dilakukan di masjid" 

2) Di masjid, inshaALLAH tiada berlaku percampuran lelaki dan perempuan (ikhtilat), berbanding jika bernikah di rumah. Plus, inshaALLAH semua orang yang have a common sense will of course berpakaian sopan dan menutup aurat.

3) But it is NOT compulsory to do it in the mosque. The solemnization could be carried out anywhwre you want it to be. 

4) Jika tidak mampu untuk menjaga adab-adab ketika berada si masjid, maka lebih wajar pernikahan itu diadakan di rumah.

These interpretations were based on what Dato' Ahmad Jusoh's opinion :)

As for me, dekat mane pun it will be, I just hope everything is gonna be OK. Semoga segalanya dipermudahkan. Amin ya rabb :)

Well, my solemnization is gonna be held at a small surau. Dekat gilos dengan rumah... Jalan lenggang kangkung pun boleh sampai. 

So Abang Kacak, see u there inshaALLAH...

(Ehh chehh chehh)

But Whyyyy?

I took my dinner already. Mak tapaukan nasi for me. Sambil mak drive, sambil I makan. Ehh kan bahagia if sambil mak drive, mak suapkan? HAHAHA

Tapi sampai je rumah, I buka tudung saji. And makan lagi.

And now, after 2 hours kot, I am still hungry. Adoi laaahhhh...

Memang berjaya menternak lemak sungguh! HEHEHE

Sedangkan dah amik measurement untuk baju. HAHAHA

Laaayyaaannn je lahhh :P

Her First Getaway (and mine too)

Ok here it goes. Honestly, I haven't been proposed officially, YET!!! Dah dirisik, dah bertunang, and bakal berkahwin this coming May 2011. Taaapppppiiiiii, seru dia tak sampai lagi kot nak propose I. Gilos!

Proposed yang biasa-biasa ade la... Entah macam mana or idea sape entah yang nak we all kawin this May :P

Serious, the actual plan is to wait until I am done with my MSc, which is next year kot, insha ALLAH.

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Tapi, hehehe... I pernah la proposed Si Abang Kacak tu. Sebab we all bergaduh and kononnya nak pujuk balik. You know me being a pathetic romantic :P

So, pada suatu hari, I pun puas la pujuk dia. Mak datokkk hang tak tau mamat tu if merajuk, mengalahkan perempuan. Haaiissshhh letih cheq.

Setelah berjaya memulas, memerah dan brain storming, I pun ordered cup cakes with ayat yang kononnya keramat itu:

    "Abang Kacak, will you marry me?"

Terasa sedikit malu masa nak ambil the cakes. Tapi nak pujuk punya pasal, I pakai bedak 2 inch tebal untuk cover malu.

Then, I pun pakat lah with his best buddy, Yus Yus (nama samaran). Kami telah berjaya memperdayakan Abang Kacak dengan tipu muslihat kami.

Yus Yus bilang padanya:

    "Weyh, ko teman aku amik gambar kat Putrajaya jap. Untuk assignment aku. Malam ni lepas maghrib aku amik ko."

So me and my best friend pun pergilah ke lokasi yang dijanjikan. Dan terlihat lah aksi-aksi Yus Yus dan Abang Kacak buat "assignment".

We parked the car, and left the cup cakes on Yus Yus's car. Lepas tu apa lagi, sorok arrrrhhhh and smsed Yus Yus.

Both Yus Yus and Abang Kacak pun menuju ke kereta. Abang Kacak ternampak kotak cup cakes tu. Dia pandang kiri. Dia pandang kanan. Dia pandang Yus Yus.

Lalu I and my BFF pun keluar tersipu-sipu malu tapi at the same time senyum bangga pun ada :P

Abang Kacak hidung dah kembang, segan la konon... Hehehe

Lepas tu, when no one was around, he said,

    "Kin, thanx. I love u."

Tapi I tak ingat la dia jawab apa as for my proposal tu. Sure lah yes kan? Tapi tak ingat. Sebab I AM expecting him to propose me. Tak kire, nak jugak nak jugak nak jugak!

p/s: Hmmm, Wai dapat idea nak buat getaway sebab adik Wai kawin ehhh? Hehehe

The True Meaning of Happiness

Few days ago, I met a guy from Jordan. He's a phd student at UPM.

Sembang punye sembang, die cakap...

    " You could seek happiness everywhere. But you'll never find it if you don't what true happiness is. I've been searching for it all this while. Until I finally realized that true happiness is whenever I am remembering ALLAH"

Whoaaa, OK Sir. I will definitely remember that. Actually I rasa semua orang tau. Cuma maybe they, emmm, neglecting it? Ye lah, sebab no matter what we do, ALLAH will always be there. Kan? Kita je tak perasan. Or terlupa.

Meeting this guy is a good thing. Kesian saya tengok dia. He's a Palestinian. Nantilah when I'm not busy, I'm gonna jot down a little something about him.

May ALLAH bless him, inshaALLAH.

My Stupid Joke (yang menempah sekeh)

Di satu hari, ehh bukan, di satu malam. Saya ternampak a very interesting article on animal testing. A good article it is.

Pastu dengan jari jemari ringan saya pun post lah kat FB and tagged my fellow friends yang buat animal testing. Hmm saya tanya one of them,

    " What is your stand on this issue?"

Dia jawab punyalah panjang and let me just copy paste je lah ye?

Interesting indeed! I seriously believe animal experimentation has saved alot of human lives; using animals has made it possible to determine what safe dose of chemicals to use on humans in order to prevent harmful effects; it has also spared us the use of humans for unnecessary experiments that have not produced good results after a few trials; humans have also been saved by treatments developed thru the use of animals. So whatever way we look at it, it still remains an unavoidable evil.
hmmmm......on the issue of animal rights activists, I never took them seriously until i was attacked on "Yahoo questions and answers" by one of them. I innocently asked a question on what type of rat is best for studying diabetes and it seemed like he was waiting for me to put up the question. The 1st response was that "you shd be ashamed of yourself using innocent animals for experiments. would you want someone to also use you as a lab rat....blah blah blah."
Infact I heard that once there was a researcher that was attacked (not sure in which country) for using animals for research. Now I am really scared of them, I hardly talk about animal experimentation outside the 4 walls of the university lol.....


And my stand?


Owh I stand up.

Mission Possible, kooottttt? Part 1

(Please try to imagine the James Bond's song when you are reading this)

My wedding is just around the corner. Simpang depan tuh je haaaa, tak jauh dah oiiiii!

But but but, I have a confession to make. Well...

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I have prepare nothing!

OK, maybe 'nothing' sounds too bad, I only managed to settle the dress for my reception. It's a new dress, konon-konon based on my own design la. 

Since when I jadi fashion designer nihhh? Keluar rumah hari-hari pun selekeh mekeh. Ade hati nak jadi fashion designer you!!

Basically my wedding dress macam pics kat bawah ni haa...

But of course, mine will be lagi banyak kain as I must cover the bahu and lengan. Lengan and bahu are too cantik to exposed. If tak cover, abis patah balik rombongan lelaki. HAHAHA

So the sopan version is something like below: 

If you happened to notice, all these dress have a bustline. 

Bagi saya itu penting untuk memberikan ilusi tinggi yang nyata dan maya. Sebabnya, teman nih emmm, small size. I am truly Asian! HAHAHA (OK fine tak mau mengaku pendek)

So, only my side's dress yang tengah OTW nak siap. His side, still looking for a perfect golden songket. I don't understand them, boys; they really like the idea of tanjak and keris. Tanjak kan benda atas kepala tuh? Ke tengkolok? :P

Checklist yang lain

1. Catering
2. Kompang
3. Goodie bag
4. Things in the goodie bag
5. Bunga pahar/bunga telur
6. Sweets
7. OUR HOME SWEET HOME
8. Honeymoon
9. Kursus kawin
10. Blood test
11. All the kawin forms
12. Spa session
13. Song list
14. Wedding card
15. Invitation list

OK, malas dah nak list them all. Sebab, from 1-15, satu pun tak settle!!! HAHAHA I know gila.

But I am too stress (konon) to think about all of these. Other B2B might be so excited. But TQ to my new MSc project, I just couldn't think of any of these things. 

Last year, uuiiissshh gilos ahh semangat. Namun kini ia pudar. So I only have 2 months 2 weeks to plan for my wedding. Whhoooaaa!!

OK lets go back to reality. I have a proposal to focus on :(

Pun Boleeeehhhh

Emmm, I have this kelebihan to incorporate two words into 1. Dulu, both words must be in BM. But now it can be either English or BM. Paham tak? 

Macamni, since I'm super duper talkative and I often cerita dengan excited and gumbira, I tend to cakap laju-laju and make a mistake. A silly one but emm, funny. Everytime silap mesti kena bahan. Senget betul!

Contoh:

1) Lembu + Kerbau = Lembau

2) Menari + Menyanyi = Menyari

3) Bosan + Boring = Bosing

4) Anak mertua and bapak menantu
5) Ketar + Lutut = Ketut
6) Diam + Senyap = Denyap/Dinyap

7) Telur + Pahar = Pehur

p/s: If dah banyak, I nak try send this list to DBP, kot-kot boleh publish. 

Homesick

I'm home, and I'm sick. So I'm basically homesick :P

It's been the 3rd day of fever. And still no signs of feeling better. Mane nak better kan, ubat tak makan. Foods pun tak makan. A friend described this situation (of I tak makan) as "pelik amat".

And so I called my mum tadi sambil tahan nangis as usual. Sepanjang these 3 days ni, she happened to be the only asked,

    "Kamu tak pegi klinik? Tak? Abis tu tak makan ubat la?"

Owwhhhh mak. Terharu nye along.

Last Saturday mak called and marah-marah I sikit. Hehehe

But today she was all OK, and siap concerned lagi. Mane ade orang yang boleh buat macam tu except for family. Kan?

Family institution sangat penting. These past few days I learnt that orang boleh put you aside/ignore you right away. But believe me, I know I could always go back to my family no matter what.

And if I didn't call for a few days, ayah would asked mak about me.

Se-along along I, I guess I was manja kott dulu. A bit fragile. Owh ingat lagi I have this weird habit of bangun malam-malam and tibe-tibe je nangis, either kat ayah or mak. Normally kat ayah. Then time tu, ape je yang I minta, sure ayah would say yes.

Hehehehe...

No one could love me the ayah does. Segarang-garang ayah, after ayah marah, ayah mesti akan buat lawak bile dah cooled down. I took it as a way to minta maaf lah tu :P

Kalaulah I tau I nak demam, last Friday lagi dah balik Ipoh. Well, since esok cuti... Hmmmm agak-agak ayah sekeh tak if I balik tonight? As in now? I could make it before 12am.

Mari packing then! Doakan I selamat sampai ehh? A sick driver is a dangerous driver :P

Kisah Cinta Emak & Ayah

Last Friday, ayah was mad at me. Pinjam his car from 10am in the morning, almost 10pm baru balik :P

So semalam (Sabtu), terpaksa la amik hati my parents. Hehehehe...

I helped my mom to prepare lunch, I cooked sayur goreng je... Then I ajak my mom kemas the stor bawah tangga tu. Memang mak dah lama bercita-cita nak kemas stor tu. Memang pandai lah I amik hati. Hahaha..

Sebabnye... lepas kemas mak terus ajak pergi Tesco. Best wooo shopping groceries dengan my family. Syioookkk!!!

OK, kisah bermula after kemas stor tu... Terjumpa lah album dahulu kala, zaman muda-mudi remaja kanak-kanak ribena lagi. 

Alalalala~ Comelnye we all adik beradik time small!!! Hahahaha

Pastu kan, terjumpa this pic; a picture of my lovely mom! Macam pakai baju nikah jerr... Hmmm?

Tergerak lah hati seorang anak yang nakal ni untuk tengok belakang picture. Waaahhhh korang, ade madah berhelah!

Amboi mummy-daddy ni... So here it is;

    BERBICARALAH DENGAN KEJUJURAN,

                                  KERANA

     KEJUJURAN ADALAH SEBAHAGIAN 

                                   DARI

            KEJERNIHAN HATI MU.....

                                                                    NS/AH

Hah amik sebiji-sebiji I tiru. Together with the spacing semua lah! Siap dengan initials lagi. Hehehehe....

Romantic seyh mak ayah. No wonder lately, selalu tengok mak teman ayah duduk buat kerja kat depan. Malas I nak kacau. Hahaha

p/s: I nak digest info jap, yang my dad ni romantic orangnye. Gile ahhh, dengan we all dulu gilos garang. Hahaha

Bila Bengang!

So I have to mark few lab reports, and now angin tengah x OK. Ape lagi, mari lepaskan geram kepada mereka!!!

HAHAHA

Well, siape suruh tak write the report betul-betul kan? Copy paste directly pulak tuh! Nasib lah, time zaman beta amik degree dulu, beta smart lagi. Nak copy paste? Bollleehhhh... But but but... Be smart dongg!!!

Alter the sentence. Play around with your sentence/words. Use synonyms ke, passive ke active ke...Just do whatever as long as you put an effort to read and study what you are doing.

Janganlah hang pi copy paste bulat-bulat or petak-petak. Dapat pulak orang macam I yang tengah moody to mark the reports, memang nasib lah!

People are being stringent on me, so I'm gonna do the same thing to others lah! But still, I have good reason.

Jadi, I dengan sungguh beria, sent an email to them. Just a friendly reminder.

Marks macamne? Nak baik hati or jahat hati? Hmmmm

I wonder....

This Reflects My Life

Kudos to Zheng Lab. May their projects yield good result. Amin.

Enjoy the video people. Gilos best. Agaknye this is how it looks like when the lab people dancing and singing. Ala-ala Lady Gaga wannabe gituh. 

Haaaa, this is how I feel at this moment! I am caught in a BAD BAD project. 

Let Love Lead The Way

That day, I terdengar this Spice Girls song ... "Let Love Lead The Way". Besstttt.

Better, I love the lyric. Ape yang buat I tibe-tibe stopped buat kerja was the lyric.

Every bit of the songs, every word. Semua macam kena je (kooonnnooonnn)

Ye lah, kadang-kadang I do wonder why there is joy, pain, cry, laugh in this life?

You know, when I thought everything will work out right, then suddenly semua jadi tak OK. One by one is being taken from me.

Why ehhhh? When I thought I could just smile, inside and outside, then tibe-tibe tears yang kuar menyibuk.

When I'm half way thru this project, and now suddenly I have to start all over again? I tengok orang lain complaining about their projects, their lives. Nak je I cakap, 

   " You, wait till you hear my problems. Then you'll realized that after all your problems are not that baddd!"

But I do realized yang orang lain pun ade je probs yang bigger than me. Yes I do believe that.

It's just now, I'm scared if I couldn't go on. I'm scared if orang lain just wanna use me. Will I make it thru the days?  

Ntah...

Part of me laughs, 

Part of me cries 

Part of me wants to question why, 

Why is there joy, 

Why is there pain, 

Why is there sunshine and the rain. 

What makes this world go round 

Will the answer let her down

She is so sweet and young 

And her life has just begun 

What does her future hold that's the story left unknown 

Will she make it through her days, let our love lead the way 

But this Spice Girls punye girls cakap, 

No matter what we must go on 

Just keep the faith 

And let love lead the way 

Everthing will work out fine 

If you let love... love lead the way 

So I'm gonna keep my faith, my love towards GOD. I know that ALLAH loves me. So I just have to be patient, pray a lot, smile a lot too, be happy, try not to hurt others. Then everything will work out fine. InshaALLAH :)

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OMG!

I had a meeting with my Dr tadi. Owh gilos takut. Rase macam nak laaarriiii. Ye lah, orang tak siap kerja kan?

HAHAHA

But the meeting went well. She's in a good mood. Siap tengok my new handbag lagi and said,

    " Ni hantaran ke? Cantiklah handbag you. Berape nih?"

Whoooaaa gilos you.

HAHAHA

Then she even made a statement saying that,

    " Tu lah, awak semua patut vote I jadi prime minister. Takdelah all these problems occurred.

NO NO NO NO

Amboooiiiii mana boleh lawan saya Dr. Saya dah cakap dari dulu lagi that I wanna be a PM.

OK I'm a bit crazy. Esok nak jumpe lagi Dr. Twice a week OK our date.  

Finally She's Happy

After a few weeks of being upset with me, my youngest sister is finally happy.

Owh I'm off to Ipoh this coming weekend. Lots of things need to be done (konon).

So memang syiokk la die. But if I balik pun, we all gaduh-gaduh. Maybe she's missing the gaduh moments kottt...

One thing about this minah, die sangat suke hisap and play with my hair. She said, rase macam McD. Hehehe...

Yummmmmyyyyyy gilos la tuh. Time to zzzz now. Hush hush... Salam!

My Daddy My Hero

When I was still a little girl, every time ayah balik or nak pergi kerja, I would jump excitedly sambil jerit...

    "Ye ye ayah balik!!!"

or...

    "Bye ayah bye ayaahhhh! Ayah bawa balik chocolataaaattteeeeee!!!"

Sekarang pun macamtu. Minus the 'jump excitedly' moment. The jerit part remains the same. Now dah tinggal at a double storey house, whenever tau ayah nak pergi kerja, I would run all the way from the hall to the main door just to wave goodbye.

And selalunye mak akan ade kat depan, sapu sampah. HAHA

Sian ayah and mak, baru nak manja-manja waving, anak dieorang yang sekor ni dah kacau daun. Nasib lah...hobby along mak.

And selalunye gak, ayah takdenye nak wave back. Konon control macho; naik motor besar mane macho babe bye bye anak. HAHA

Or naik kereta mane ayah nak dengar suara halus lemak merdu anak die ni. Kadang-kadang ayah akan senyum-bajet-comel or jelir lidah. 

Ape kes ntah ayah ni jelir lidah. Orang buat la flying kiss ke. Haaa kan cair I. Ehh mak cair. I pun caiirrr. Saayyyaannnggg ayah.

Takpelah ayah, eventho ayah tak cakap ayah sayang along, I know you very well. Malu la tuh nak cakap 'sayang hang jugak'. Tak macho ehhh?

Takpe dulu along belajar bahasa hati, along paham. 

Thank you. Along sayang ayah too!!! You are always my hero. I know you are better than Batman, Superman sebab ayah selalu menang bile lawan dengan Jebon.

Jebon, you know Jebon? My dad killed him you know.

Tu modal ayah untuk suruh I tido dulu. Dulu memang takutlah if ayah cakap Jebon nak datang. Memang I tido tutup muke!

Sekarang if dah lewat malam and still tak tido lagi, dengar je kelibat ayah datang, I pun ape lagi. Berlakon krohh kroohh kroohh. Takut ayah marah.

May ALLAH bless you both, ayah and mak.

Sinar Harapan

On Wednesday, I had a brief meeting with my SV. Owh goodness, the sight of her table drives me crazy. It reflected the condition of my room back in 17. Horror OK!

Told ya a scientist has to be in a horror state. Hahahaha

OK back to business. Since I'm having trouble with my sample size which is only 40 patients, I might need to add a new parameter to my SNP study. Well, I don't wanna add too much of stuff since I'm not into genetics sangat. Ni pun baru mule nak bercinte with genetics, so selow melow lah ye?

After a short discussion, hey I might not need to worry too much since I could just change my sample criteria. Once Rara has identified the list of genes, then I could just proceed by comparing between normal and diabetic population. Weehhuuuuuu!

Kot laaahhhh. Still need to do a lot of reading, literature review and all. Haaiiisshhh I hate that part the most. Tahukah anda journal in genetics amat susah untuk difahami? Hah tak tahu? Tu lah, susah woo wa cakap sama lu.

Wa baca sikit, wa gelak then wa tido. Sebab wa talak paham apa-apa just by reading it once.

So...hati ni berbunga-bunga cinta lah sikit. Aman damai rasenye... 

Harap everythinn will be OK.

p/s: To Madam Soorayee, thanx for ur comment. I appreciate it. Really. Thank you.

Wahhh I'm Gifted!

Yesss people, I am gifted!

With the ability of jalan ke depan, tapi mata pandang tempat lain. Heh

I almost langgar macam-macam benda. But luckily tak pernah lah langgar tiang retak seribu. Mostly I langgar orang. Lepastu akan bermula lah adegan,

    "Owh!!! I'm sorry!!! Saya tak sengaja. Sorry sorry!!!

(Dengan senyuman konon apologetic) 

I was thinking, if next time I langgar orang, then I terus nyanyi Sorry Sorry Sorry by Super Junior, OK tak? Siap dancing lagi. 

I'm pretty sure orang tu tak kan marah. In fact die akan terpaku. Hahahaha

Reality

My supervisor once said, life is never fair. It is unfair. Really. Sometimes, you couldn't understand why they are people who are just so lucky with their lives.

They seemed so happy, so complete. Note the ' they seemed'. Maybe they are not really happy inside but they stopped others to see the sad side of themselves. 

I am known to be a happy-go-lucky girl. I talked a lot, I smiled a lot. But to be honest, I cried a lot too. Almost everyday. I have to say that inside, I am not that happy.

I always believe that being me, I should make others happy. It doesn't matter whether I am happy or not. Because, truly, I am very happy when I could cheer up others.

I am nothing special. I have failed, twice. But I managed to stand up again and keep on going. I guess I am quite strong then. To be able to stand, until now.

Now, I am so sad because I think I could not go on anymore. I have become too lazy, too saturated and too stupid.

Sometimes I just feel like quitting. Just go back home, and stay there. Where no one could hurt me. Or make me sad. 

I know because no matter what happened I have my families to return too. I wish I could just go home and tell my mum that I don't wanna do this anymore. I don't wanna study. Or work. 

I just wanna be your daughter. I just wanna be at home. Playing. I just wanna be your little girl once again.

I don't wanna proceed, I just want all to stop. I am too scared to face another failure. I am too weak to hear people say something that could hurt my feeling. 

I am tired of crying everyday. I just wanna laugh. And play.

I DO NOT WANT ANY RESPONSIBILITY.

I HATE IT WHEN PEOPLE HURT MY FEELING WITH THEIR WORDS. 

I HATE IT BECAUSE I AM SO SENSITIVE I WOULD EASILY CRY.

Saya Laparrr Lah Kamu...

It's almost 1 a.m. and I'm hungry. Adoi, tadi makan dah bace bismillah... Siap makan senyum-senyum lagi. Tapi why lapar lagi ni?

Haiiisshhh, high metabolism rate? HAHA I doubt that!

Tu lah, next time, jangan cakap that your hobby is 'menternak lemak'. Dah tak tertahan dah proses penternakan lemak ni. Asyik-asyik lapar.

So should I masak or just sleep?

Owh God... Hmmmm.