I tengah bengannnggg nganng ngaaanngg!!!
What is it with people nowadaysCome on, zaman dah maju. We have FB, phone, sms, bbm, email, blog, twitter etc... So when people invited you to a wedding, thru all those FB blah blah, why would you requested for a card pulak?
Those 'routes' of invitation above are designed to make things easier and cheaper of course! Why do people wanna make things hard balik by demanding nak card semua bagai?
Orang dah tagged kat FB, and even called! Bukannya tak ikhlas nak invite by tagging and calling or texting ke... It's just that certain people are BUSY, SUPER BUSY to post all the cards. What with the price nak buy stamps, then nak pergi pot office, paste the stamps, seal the envelopes.
Tolonglah, satu card, satu stamp. Satu stamp 60sen. Times dengan 100 is equal to RM 60.
I have to admit, I have not send out my invitation yet. Tapi terbaca event my friend ni, punyelah ramai yang nak card ape semua bagai. Come on lah people, when it is my turn nanti, I won't print a lot of cards.
I'm a student and yes, I wanna get married while I'm studying. So I have to plan my wedding on a strict budget. If tunggu I habis belajar, lagi 3-4 tahun la jawabnya.
Kadang-kadang I pelik dengan our society. Demand benda bukan-bukan. Nak bilik pengantin, pelamin, bunga telur, goodie bag and if semua yang listed tu takde, mulalah mengata.
Oi bersanding haram!!!
Oi ape takde kerja ke masuk bilik pengantin. Tu bukan private ke?
Oi bunga telur tu, telur tuh guwa tengok dibuang jugak.
Oi guwa tengok paper bag tuh dibuang gak. Bersepah kat rumah pengantin.
Urrggghhh!!!
Better I provide good foods from the caterer, good foods in the goodie bag daripada I bagi mahal punye goodie bag tapi the contents? Mak ai mengarut! Handkerchief? Pakai sekali dah rosak.
A good friend of mine once said,
"Kedai pengantin nih semua, merosakkan orang Melayu!"
Well friend, I have to agree on that.
Apelah orang Melayu nih, nak sangat agungkan adat. Nak sangat Melayu tu, Melayu ni. Tolonglah, yang penting is agama OK.
Islam dulu, kini dan selamanya. Itu baru betul. So if dah Islam larang bersanding, why must you force me to bersanding?
well wai tk phm sgt la..ticker tu ape...
ReplyDeleteticker tu, ala yg mcm countdown tu...heheh
ReplyDeletehi minahsenget,
ReplyDeleterasa bersalah lak panggil nama ni..maaf! erm, ada betulnya jgk apa yg u ckp ni...kad kawin tu simbolik aje..tp tu sume dah jadi budaya, kdg2 lebih manis jemput pakai kad especially utk org2 tua ni, utk sahabat dan kenalan yg kita bebetul senang dgn dia. tak perlu anta kad kat sume org..ada modus rsvp dlm fb..dlm tu dah bleh tau brp org yg sudi dtg dgn tak..ada pro & cons kat cni..susah nak cakap jgk sbnrnya. yg penting kita jemput, nak dtg atau tak tu hak memasing
hey fatt, its ok. just call me MS then.macho skit. tu la, yang penting kte mmg jemput dgn ikhlas tulus dari hati,cheewahh. but kadang2 org2 tua ni mmg ade yg berdegil nak kad. yg mude pun...so wat 2do...budaya kan..ikut je la setakat yg blh... :)
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